Members must be vetted prior to joining, but membership is open to anybody 18 or over regardless of sex, race, creed, color, religion, marital/relationship status, sexual orientation, gender identity, nationality, or physical challenges.

1. Attend a social

Attending socials give management a chance to meet with prospective members and see if they would be a good fit.  You might feel nervous attending your first social, but we were all new to the scene at some point, so we know what you’re going through.

2. Send us an email

After the social, let us know if you’re interested.  You can RSVP for an event, send an email to TheAphroditeGroup@rochester.rr.com, or send a message via Fetlife to SiriusRed or MamaBear_Dee.  If the management approves of you, we’ll tell you how to get to our facility.

3. Fill out the information card

Discussing BDSM may seem a little intimidating for newcombers, but knowing what interests you will help us set you at ease and guide you toward people with similar interests. We also need to verify that you are 18 or older.