• WELCOME TO TAG!

    We are a privately-owned, upscale BDSM club focused on consensual BDSM play, events, and education in a positive, supportive environment to anyone 18 and over. We host several events each month, with an occasional special night just for the 18 – 35 crowd. We have a 3800 sq. ft. facility with more than a dozen different stations, as well as a social area, kitchen, private bathrooms, and more. Click on Events above to view our vetting events. Come visit us and be vetted to attend!

Welcome!

The Aphrodite Group (aka — “TAG”) is the upscale BDSM club in Rochester, NY. TAG is a community of people with experience in a wide range of kink, bdsm and fetishes. 

Everyone (age 18+) is welcome. At TAG, we support our members, help them learn how to safely explore their kinks, and welcome the diversity that kink and BDSM offer. Diversity of any kind brings new perspectives, new experiences, and we love and support all our members.

Whether you are experienced or new to BDSM, The Aphrodite Group can help you:

  • learn more about the BDSM and the kink community in and around Rochester and Western NY,
  • make new friends at our socials, play parties, and other fun events,
  • provide a “dungeon” in which to play or rent for your own events.

We have a wide open play area for people who enjoy being watched and more private play areas for people who don’t. We have a wide variety of BDSM furniture, a social area, a kitchen, and private bathrooms. The Aphrodite Group is the upscale space to explore kink and BDSM in Rochester, NY, Western NY, and The Finger Lakes. TAG is also just a short drive from Buffalo, NY and Syracuse, NY.

 

What is BDSM?

BDSM is a combination of terms -- "Bondage and Discipline", "Domination and Submission", and "Sadism and Masochism". There are many different ways to participate, and we want to make sure that everybody does so safely and enjoyably.
BDSM is a combination of terms — “Bondage and Discipline”, “Domination and Submission”, and “Sadism and Masochism”. There are many different ways to participate, and we want to make sure that everybody does so safely and enjoyably.